Tuesday, April 16, 2013

Guest Posting by Tell Deatrich: Rusty Gates

This post was written by a friend of mine, Tell Deatrich.  He shares some great words, so please read on!


I am tired of these rusty gates?
I’m kinda tired of Church.  I’m kinda tired of Christians.  It seems like every time I turn around someone that claims to follow Christ is talking bad about someone else.  It seems like every time I turn around I am talking bad about someone else.  It seems like my whole community has gotten lost somewhere in between hell and the Holy Spirit.  What ever happened to building up in truth?  Loving your neighbor as yourself has seemed to be the last thing on our minds these days.  Instead we are walking around like a bunch of rusty gates.  Oh, and don’t forget, I am one of those people as well.
All of the hatred and malice that gets passed around the Church is terribly depressing.  One doesn’t have to wait very long before you find someone in the Church that has a bone to pick.  From the beginning there have been problems in the Church.  Don’t believe me?  What is 1 & 2 Corinthians about?  Galatians?  Colossians?  Philemon?  All of these books are helpful in correcting problems that the Church was having at the time.  Many of them suggest living in peace, and loving one another.  There is correction going on, but it is not in the form of hateful words and blame.  I would say that it clearly builds the body of believers up in truth and righteousness. If that is true, then why does it seem that we cannot also do the same?! What happens to the words between the time that the Church goer hears them and the next words that come out of their own mouth? 
It seems to me that we expect Christians to automatically be perfect as soon as they are saved.  We put up with lots of poor actions from the world, but the instant our proclaimed Christians friends do something that offends you, the world is going to end.  You gotta raise your voice and call them out!  Stomp your foot down and tell them that they did something wrong!  Don’t they know the bible tells them that they should be a better person?! 
Maybe correction is in order, but you might want to consider non-believers first, other believers second and yourself last.  Imagine if a non-believer was involved in your disagreement in the Church.  Would they still see the Church, the body of Christ, as something good to be involved with?  Would they still be amazed at the love you have for one another?  Or would they see Church as a place where everyone is a hypocrite and hates one another?  At least down at the bar everyone knows their name and is happy to see them.
It reminds me of the Cheers theme song. 

Sometimes you want to go
Where everybody knows your name,
and they're always glad you came.
You wanna be where you can see,
our troubles are all the same
You wanna be where everybody knows
Your name.

If you don’t know the old television show Cheers, it is a TV series that takes place in a bar, and it is a pretty good show for the most part.  Everyone on Cheers seems to like each other and help each other through their problems.  They are good natured in their jokes, and get along as well as any Church I have been to.  I think of Cheers when I think of a Church that I want to be involved in.
                When you are having a confrontation with another believer you might consider forgiveness first.  Can you forgive them first, and then discuss your differences?  Would that stir some sort of love for them in your heart?  Next time you feel like being a rusty gate, try to think of the non-believers watching.  Think of the believers affected by your actions, and I would be willing to bet that your concerns about how you feel will fall into place.  Maybe then will we have learned how to love.  --TD

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